why is it hard to trust a guy who i love ( online dating)?
i have a boy friend who is in the military , well we met online we r on online dating , i guess it sounds like strange love .. but we r seriouse for sure , but there was a little thing or biger for me maybe .. i had to make another id for testing him , because i’ve never met him in person yet . but we will soon . so i talked to him with the id (not mine, he never know ) i acted like another girl and said him i like him, wanna be friend with .. he asked do i know him? .. of course i can’t say that i know .. but i just said i want to be friend . and i said also i wanna meet him in person ..lol he said .. he wanna hang out with me .. oh my god .. he wants to meet the other girl … i was jealouse it , i thought it’s hard to handle online date.. can’t trust easy ….
Well, he can’t trust you, either. I mean, you have now lied to him, and been false with him. Why should he trust you?
Fact is, you will not be able to trust and truly love one another until you meet live, face-to-face and whatever-to-whatever.
On-line dating is hazardous at best. You need to assume the worst, because you will find it often enough that such an assumption is justified. At the same time, you need to reach out, or the whole point of on-line dating would be lost. So reach out gently, carefully, and don’t rely too heavily on anything that a person who has the anonymity of a computer keyboard says. Even a photo: who knows if it is his or a friend of his, or even a total stranger?
Still, personality does show through the way a person words things, the topics he is interested in discussing, and so forth. Why not just count friends, not lovers, until you get the opportunity to meet — and meet in a public place at first, for all the obvious reasons.
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